WEN FANG

♥ Tuesday, September 20, 2011

work is pretty smooth at least for the past 1 week since im was gg through training and there is no late nights and can end earlier... im glad. but knowing a few people leaving the company really depressing. i should be happy for them cos they are going to leave a really stressful place. but it just perk me to review if i should stay through the peak and can i manage cos this time i need to coach the lower level but my knowledge is weak. i cannot stand being very stupid... argh but im too lazy to upgrade my knowledge...

another thing is making friends at work. is not easy. i nv realise the toughness until i came to work here. people hu i din work on big or long jobs, they are difficult or almost impossible to become gd frens although im keen to do so. i envy my colleague and no action can be enuf to change the fact. im still glad i gt 1 or 2 not bad frens who think for me and care for me. is hard... sometime i dun join them for lunch bcos i wan to lunch with paper knot but not many people understands and yeah harder to bond with the rest...

BUT the thing is it is difficult for people who are not compassionate and seriously too unfriendly i hate to know im working in the same company as them... im not angelic but i really dun care but to detest them...

haix. actually whole point is to grumble abt the sucky people i know. argh..

anyway i also want to delicate to 4 of my best frens who are going through a hard time...

some messages for you all:

1. we will be here for you no matter what. take yr time and we will wait patiently for u. no matter what we always hope for the best for u and some time we face lost period but rmb the song, "nothing ever changes, we will wait happily and patiently for u to come back us after ur thoughts". nevermind about how long it takes k. we misses u especially i miss yr bubbly smile cos ur smile and can kill many guys. :)

2. sometime 1 is blinded by the hope for love and u are not to be blame and yeah know love can be hurting but ocos we learn and grow at the same time. is gd that u change yr focus to a more fulfilling one but never be afraid to love again bcos it is just that he is nt the right person and he doesnt deserve to love anyone! so u are the brave one and i believe u can walk it thru. and i strongly believe u will find 1 that u deserve but why is he not here yet? maybe he is lost and still finding his way to u. :)

3. words can be hurting but she meant gd for u to learn to look at stuff from a more mature way. work may be tough but im sure the owner of yr rabbit surely have a gd farsight of yr potential. dun be afraid and venture all the way out. dun be stress becos u nd to eat and bubble tea is unhealthy! hope you can find back yr calm, compose and chill way of working k. i looking forward for u to share with me yr success! :) i cant wait for yr website! haha.

4. u and i share many negative things that happen at work. u hv me to look up to survive although i may not be really gd at work anymore. nevertheless, like wad yr dad says, work is not easy but sometime we just hv to swallow it down our throat. lets treat those nasty people like nothing bcos if we care too much, it is giving them to much face! they dun deserve it. and glad u found a gd boss and supporting colleagues! they certainly keeps u going!

hugs to all my beloved frens! we can pull through one! we need to strive for people we love isn't it. be it family or friends or yourself (self love)..

Some quotes to share:

“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”- Lucille Ball

“I think that when we look for love courageously, it reveals itself, and we wind up attracting even more love. If one person really wants us, everyone does. But if we're alone, we become even more alone. Life is strange.” - Paulo Coelho

“I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth - and truth rewarded me.” - Simone de Beauvoir

A good website to share:
http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-ways/

When you make a decision to love yourself, you are really saying that you want to come alive. You accept that you are responsible for the outcomes that you experience in your life and would like yourself to shine from living a fulfilling life.

1. Fall in love with yourself. Think about what makes you You. Just like a flower that needs watering to grow, learn to nurture yourself in every way. Love yourself for all the good that you see and accept your flaws and the fact that you are imperfect. This does not mean that you do not learn to change from your shortcomings; instead, you are being gentle and kind to yourself despite all your “flaws”. Look in the mirror and fall in love with the reflection that is You.

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.”
Oscar Wilde quotes (Irish Poet, Novelist, Dramatist and Critic, 1854-1900)

2. Eliminate Self Criticism. Do you often berate yourself over the tiniest thing? Is there a little voice inside your head that often tells you that you are no good because you are stupid or make mistakes. If you find that you criticize yourself often, make an effort to stop the self criticism.

“I CAN is 100 times more important than IQ.” — unknown

The rest of the 15 ways can be found at the website. :)

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